Depression is one of the most common mental health conditions, yet it is often misunderstood. Misconceptions can make it harder for people to seek help, or can leave friends and family feeling unsure of how to offer support. Understanding the facts about depression is a crucial step toward reducing stigma and promoting wellbeing.
Common Myths About Depression
There are many myths about depression that can affect how people perceive themselves or others. Some of the most common include:
- “Depression is just feeling sad.”
Feeling low occasionally is part of life, but depression is more than temporary sadness. It involves persistent low mood, loss of interest or pleasure, fatigue, changes in sleep and appetite, and sometimes physical symptoms. - “You can just snap out of it.”
Depression is not a matter of willpower. It is a mental health condition influenced by brain chemistry, life events, genetics, and psychological factors. Recovery often requires support through therapy, lifestyle changes, or medication. - “Only weak people get depressed.”
Depression does not discriminate. It can affect anyone regardless of age, gender, background, or personality. Experiencing depression does not mean someone is weak — it is a medical and psychological condition. - “Talking about it makes it worse.”
On the contrary, talking to a trusted therapist, friend, or family member can help. Expressing your feelings in a safe space allows you to process emotions and develop coping strategies. - “Antidepressants change who you are.”
When prescribed and monitored appropriately, antidepressants help restore balance to brain chemistry. They support recovery, allowing therapy and lifestyle changes to be more effective — they do not fundamentally alter your personality.
Why Debunking Myths Matters
Believing myths about depression can prevent people from seeking help or supporting loved ones effectively. Misconceptions can:
- Increase feelings of shame or guilt
- Delay professional treatment
- Contribute to isolation and stigma
Recognising the realities of depression helps create understanding, encourages early intervention, and supports recovery.
How Therapy Helps
Therapy provides a safe, non-judgmental space to explore your emotions and understand the underlying causes of depression. A therapist can help you:
- Recognise unhelpful thought patterns and negative beliefs
- Develop coping strategies for managing low mood
- Process life events or trauma that may contribute to depressive symptoms
- Build self-awareness and resilience
Approaches such as psychodynamic therapy and integrative counselling can help you make sense of your experiences and find personalised strategies for recovery.

Taking the Next Step
If you recognise any of these myths in your own thinking or feel that depression is affecting your life, it’s important to know that support is available. Speaking to a BACP-registered therapist can help you understand your experience and start the journey toward improved mental health. Get in touch.
Can talking about depression really help?
Yes. Sharing your feelings with a trained therapist, trusted friend, or family member can provide relief, help you process emotions, and develop coping strategies.
Are antidepressants safe to use?
When prescribed and monitored by a healthcare professional, antidepressants can safely help and support therapy and recovery.
Is depression a sign of weakness?
No. Depression is a medical and psychological condition, not a character flaw. Anyone can experience it regardless of age, gender, or background.
How long does depression last?
The duration varies. Some people experience a single episode, while others may have recurring periods. Early support through therapy or other treatments can shorten the duration and reduce severity.
Can lifestyle changes help with depression?
Yes, for some. Regular exercise, balanced nutrition, sleep hygiene, and social support can complement therapy and other treatments, improving overall wellbeing.